5 Reasons You Will Get Me to Subscribe to Your Blog

Editor’s Note: Hello My Lovelies. I hope you’re all having a good start to the week. I’m gonna’ cut through all the blah blah and simply tell you that I have a great post for you today from my good friend (and yours) John Falchetto, the Expat Life Coach.

John’s rich cultural background and experience make him someone you definitely want to get to know and become friends with – both online and off! Having lived and worked as an entrepreneur in 3 different continents and countries such as Egypt, Dubai, France…John’s life coaching skills will surely lend themselves invaluably to anyone looking to get clarity and results – both at a personal and professional level.

If you want to learn more about John and his entrepreneurial career, make sure to read his guest post for Troy Claus – Of Pitfalls and Provence. Needless to say that I highly recommend you subscribe to his blog and follow Mr. Falchetto just about everywhere; his blog, Facebook page, Twitter, home in Provence – okay maybe not that far, but you know what I mean ;). 

John Falchetto 5 Reasons You Will Get Me to Subscribe to Your Blog

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I discovered nittyGriddy blog, the creation of a writing pyromaniac called Ingrid Abboud back in January of this year. Her post was asking Technorati if they were blind, Do you See Me Now Technorati, made me laugh, fall off my chair and showed me that there was a light in the sameness of the social media echo chamber. So even if Technorati didn’t see her, I definitely chose to subscribe and became a fan.

Discovering nittyGriddy was only the beginning. Within the next few weeks I was going to subscribe and build some amazing relations with some great online friends. These are the five reasons which led me to subscribe to these awesome blogs.

1. Have some class

A few days before I read Griddy’s post on Technorati’s blindness I found Gini Dietrich’s Chris Brogan’s Ear Marketing is Wrong.  I loved the post not just because I was getting quite tired with the sycophantic behavior of many people online, but because of the way Gini handled her critics in her comments. This simply set her in a class of her own.

One young blogger then wrote a post entirely devoted to criticizing her and what did she do? She invited him to guest post on Spin Sucks. Take this for respecting all opinions. Something many seem to have forgotten last week when she advanced the idea that Brogan could be early about Google + business application.

2. Have disclosure

There is so much affiliate marketing going on sometimes even the big wigs get caught with their fingers in the cookie jar. I found Danny Brown when he wrote about the need for disclosure and more importantly a disclaimer when a blogger suddenly started giving health advice. If you want to know what full disclosure looks like, read this.

3. Be generous

Last week I felt sad because one of the first person to help and guide me online announced he was going to stop blogging. Mark Harai, a mentor for a digital baby like myself, showed generosity and took the time to connect with and build a relationship when I knew nobody and nobody read my blog. I don’t know how I will ever repay his generosity, I just hope he gets back online and shares his immense value again.

4. Write from personal experience

Mark Harai tried very hard to convince me that I should break my rule of not following Avatars of animals and start reading The Sales Lion. At first I thought Mark had spend too long on the beach that day.

Well let’s just say that I am happy I broke that rule and started reading Marcus Sheridan, a friend who always writes from personal experience. I find this to be a rare quality in the blogosphere. We can easily find someone giving advice on how to make a post go viral or get hundreds of comments even though they have never done it themselves.

Marcus (aka Mufasa as Griddy nicknamed him) walks the talk and then shows me how it’s done.

5. Have a great mindset

When I first read JK Allen’s The Hustler’s Notebook, I thought this is what every entrepreneur should be doing before they start their business. The side-hustle is a concept I wish I had started when I was still employed and before I jumped into the crazy world of entrepreneurship.

JK is an inspiration, he succeeded in turning what many see as a source of desperation. He works in corporate America but is actually an intrapreneur, running his career like a business owner.

These are my five keypoints on my checklist to subscribe to your blog. Now what really matters is what are yours?

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About the Author

Ingrid Abboud aka 'Griddy' is a whole lot of things with a ridiculous amount of interests. For one, I'm a Social Media enthusiast with a tremendous passion for writing and blogging. I'm also a pretty cool Copywriter but a more serious MarCom Consultant. But most of all, I'm the proud owner and driving force behind nittyGriddy.com - A Kinda Social Media Journal with Net News & more.

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    • http://twitter.com/skypulsemedia Howie at Sky Pulse Media

      OK Sorry about that I was responding to the wrong blog post I just read. I was reading Chris Brogan’s blog post on Mashable. So sorry John. I was just gazing at that amazing larger than life photo @Griddy:disqus posted and I forgot I had just read the other blog and got carried away. With Disqus making me scroll down through all the comments obviously I lost track. Please accept my apologies. In fact I will have @a76049f6a32a1e633a732b81bafb98c9:disqus ship you one of the lifesaver books as a peace offering.

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      BTW I have submitted a request to the great state of South Dakota to add you next to Lincoln on Mount Rushmore. Waiting on a response 8)

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    Hi John,

    Awesome guest post @johnfalchetto:disqus , and I finally got a chance to read it. 

    What I especially like about what you’re saying is generousity and the personal experience. A lot of the blog posts I read are very similar, and about the same topics, but I always end up subscribing to blogs that have a personal perspective and from people who are all about helping (and sharing what they have learned).

    The personal touch is the story telling, and seeing pictures of the daughter of @MarcusSheridan:disqus playing baseball makes me remember the post, and why the post is important to me and why Marcus told it. To me, blogging is a personal journey, and not just a way to share knowledge. 

    Jens

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    Also, as long as you are not posting crap after crap, then I will keep you on my subscription list. Also, if you talk about how wonderful I am and you totally love me as a blogger, then +1 to your subscription! 

  • http://vizsource.info/ Kim Davies

    @johnfalchetto:disqus After spending a week at the hospital tending to my daughter who was sick with pneumonia, your guest post mentioning some of the people who’ve helped shape my blogging style was definitely a great pick me up. Not to mention the absolutely guffaw moments in the comments. I can’t say yet why you need to subscribe to my site, John, except that I give love and smiles like there’s no tomorrow, I share personal stuff that could make you cry, my mindset is always about love, smiles and laughter and every now and then I open my posts with a poem. 😀 May not be enough for you or others to come over, but I’m keeping my fingers crossed. 😀
    @Griddy:disqus Hi, Griddy. Got a great guest blogger in John and I love his WP description of you. :)

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      @f4443dbf6c8279fa32db2cba7ea46d7b:disqus I really hope your daughter is feeling better, is she still out of hospital now?

      • http://vizsource.info/ Kim Davies

        Thanks, John. She got discharged Monday afternoon.

        • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

          I’m really happy to hear that Kim :). God bless.

          • http://vizsource.info/ Kim Davies

            Elle is definitely getting better, Griddy. Thanks for the care and the prayers. God bless you, too. :)

            • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

              Our care and prayers is the least we can do my dear Kim. I’m just relieved to hear that Elle is out of the hospital and back home with you :). A mother’s love and care goes a long way.

              • http://vizsource.info/ Kim Davies

                :) Really appreciate that.

    • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

      Kim I’m so sorry to hear about your daughter :(. You must have had quite a nerve wracking week to say the least. Is she doing better? I truly hope so. She’ll be in my prayers tonight to get well soon.

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          Mark extended his apologies for missing our Skype call. He said he had to attend to some school stuff for his kids. Maybe next time we could finally catch him, eh? :)

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    Aw, I can feel the love emanating from this post, it feels really sweet and cozy…

    Anyway, enough of the sentimental mush, here are five reasons why someone should be blogging in the first place. The fact that you can accomplish all five, and still be authentic, is reason enough to get blogging.

    Keep up the hard rockin’ John :-)

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      Hey Stu, love? What love, this is all hard, cold, facts :)

      There are many other reasons but I was told to keep them at 5 as only @nittygriddyblog:twitter is allowed to go past the 1000 word mark.

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        Ha! Now you all know there’s no word limit on this blog ;). Heck, as long as it’s not 3000 words – write away my dear friends! If I were to limit the word count on my GP’s then I’d still probably give folks a little more than a 1000 – I wouldn’t want double standards. If I go over them, then others can too :)))).

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    Nice points John, and even better examples. I never really had a chance to interact with Mark Harai, but one thing that struck me about your list was that everyone on it could have been used as an example for the “Be Generous” bullet. It is one of the truly defining aspects of these communities and the people in them.

    • http://www.expatlifecoach.com/blog John Falchetto

      @twitter-223833082:disqus Generosity goes a long way in my book and the 5 bloggers I mentioned all showed tons of it not only towards me but also with others. The more you give, the more you get back.

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      • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

        Ramadan Moubarak Hajra. 

        • http://hajrak.blogspot.com Hajra

          Thanks so much Ingrid! Hope you have a blessed year too :)

          • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

            Inchallah :)! And the same to you and your family my dear.

  • http://hustlersnotebook.com Jk Allen

    John –

    Man, thanks so much in adding me as an example of having a good mindset. I’m honored to hear that come from you. My mindset is what drives me. Enough with me!

    Your mention of Gini, Danny Mark and others are examples that I look for as well. One of the biggest from me, is that 4th point – Personal experience where you shined a light on Marcus and his brilliance in only writing from this zone. He’s a great example of writing from personal experience. And let me add one more person in that bucket…YOU! You gift us all with your great experiences in life. Your posts are often like small acts of a movie…”based on a real story”.

    Thanks again John.

    Hey Griddy! How have you been? I’ve been good – just busy as ever. But life is good….naw…let me be honest….life is great!

    PEACE

    • http://www.expatlifecoach.com/blog John Falchetto

      @jkthehustler:twitter JK you know where I stand when it comes to you intrapreneur mindset. Now where is the book? 😉

    • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

      Hey JK,
      I’ve been great – thanks so much for asking :). I was on holiday (travelling) but now back and slowly trying to get back into normal mode – it’s always a bit hard to do after a vacay but such is life I suppose.

      Glad to hear that life is great on your end and that it’s treating you so well. I hope it always does just that and more!

      Talk to you soon Mr. Hustler 😉

  • http://pioneeroutfitters.com/AlaskaChickBlog/ Amber-Lee Dibble

    John,
    (I just found out! Oh No! Not Mark Harai!)
    Ok, for you…
    #1 I try, I really do. Can I help it if I think a 2×4 is a much more efficient way to get my point across?
    #2 Disclosure, got it!
    #3 Generous, you ask, I’ll do everything in my power to deliver! (I really like to be asked…my mind-reading abilities never fully formed)
    #4 Experience… That’s all I have to offer, me. 40 long-long-long years! LOL
    #5 Mind Set…I’m trying…it was a tough few days.

    I gotta go find out if Mark is just going to vanish or what.. I really like him. My little girl LOVES his idea of me teaching a monkey to ride…Oh wait, oh, never mind. (see? I have restraint! LOL) ~Amber-Lee

    • http://www.expatlifecoach.com/blog John Falchetto

      Hi Amber you have monkeys in Alaska?

      • http://pioneeroutfitters.com/AlaskaChickBlog/ Amber-Lee Dibble

        I know you didn’t just ask me that! LOL!! No, oh’ brilliant one! Uncle John, indeed. Mark Harai does! And my little Alaska Chicklet wants him to bring her one! (idea from repeating a funny tweet to the family from Mark to me) HIS response to that was I should teach it to ride! Oh my, did I just explain that? Oh Lordy.

        • http://www.expatlifecoach.com/blog John Falchetto

          LOL! How is your season going?  You should be out of black fly season by now right?

        • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

          LOL! You…are a very funny woman Amber-Lee! And it’s a real pleasure to have you here :).

  • http://www.thejackb.com/ The JackB

    I like all of the people you mention, but  will focus on Mark for a moment. I didn’t get the chance to read him for very long but I really did enjoy what he had to share. There was a lot of value there.

    • http://www.expatlifecoach.com/blog John Falchetto

      Hi Jack, yep that’s true. I hope he comes back to blogging.

    • http://vizsource.info/ Kim Davies

      I miss Mark. :(

      • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

        I do too! I really hope we continue to see him around cause he’s just a wonderful man and has been so supportive to all of us during his journey. I truly wish him all the best and more.

  • http://www.thesaleslion.com/ Marcus Sheridan,The Sales Lion

    The concept of openness and sincerity go such a long way in the blogosphere John. It’s something that’s hard to ‘explain’, but is sure as heck ‘felt’, and whenever I read and ‘feel’ blogger like that, I’m on board.

    You rock bud, great to see you on here. :-)

    Marcus

    • http://www.expatlifecoach.com/blog John Falchetto

      Hi Buddy, that’s another great reason to subscribe to a blog. The way they make you feel!

      • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

        That would have to be one of the best reasons John! If they make me feel at home – the way I try to do with people here – and the way people like you, @MarcusSheridan:disqus @ginidietrich:disqus @dannybrown:twitter @hustlersnotebook:disqus @a76049f6a32a1e633a732b81bafb98c9:disqus @liveurlove:twitter @nancyd68:twitter and many others do – then I’m theirs!

  • http://billdorman.wordpress.com Bill Dorman

    First of all, Mark didn’t want me to say anything but if you send him $1,000 US dollars he will consider that repayment enough.

    Yes, I know all the people you mentioned; very well actually, and would like to think any success I have had is because I’ve been able to emulate parts of each one of them and incorporate them into the sum total of my parts (and that includes you). 

    I have to tell you though, it’s all nice and pretty you get your big mug up there and I’m sure this will turn into a virtual love-fest before it’s all said and done but just remember; you.won’t.get.the.car.

    John, I have a ton of respect and admiration for you, but best of all I get to call you friend. You are a true giver and it has been a pleasure to watch how you’ve grown in this arena.

    Ok, my turn………..what a great post, I’ve never seen anything as well done as this; I mean, you are the man, right?

    Have a great week, buddy.

    • http://www.expatlifecoach.com/blog John Falchetto

      @a76049f6a32a1e633a732b81bafb98c9:disqus Thanks Buddy, guest posting here gives me the extra comments as it’s a new month now :)

      • http://www.thesaleslion.com/ Marcus Sheridan,The Sales Lion

        Ahhh, I just realized that JF, giving a guest post on Griddy’s blog on the first day of the month should be officially against the rules of ‘Top Stalker’….I’m going to go protest now :))

        • http://billdorman.wordpress.com Bill Dorman

          Let me know if you need signatures………..

        • http://www.expatlifecoach.com/blog John Falchetto

          Too late buddy! LOL! I will be giving a webinar on gaming the Top Stalker of the month numbers soon :)

          • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

            I think I’d like to attend that! Tickets? 😉

        • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

          Hey, hey now…there shall be no protesting here! But you can feel free to egg John when you see him haha. Of course – I had nothing to do with it – so try not to aim for me as well ;).

      • http://billdorman.wordpress.com Bill Dorman

        I think Griddy finally took me off double secret probation; I see my pic showing up again. I know she likes me, but she wasn’t totally comfortable with me running around the house while she was gone. I mean, she has a reputation to uphold, right?

        • http://www.thejackb.com/ The JackB

          It is your world Bill, double secret probation can’t stop the invisible blogger- we can only hope to contain him. 😉

          • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

            Hihi – you guys are hysterical!

          • http://twitter.com/skypulsemedia Howie at Sky Pulse Media

            Jack I have a Butterfly net made of Unobtanium Fibers and I heard it can be used to capture invisible bloggers.

            • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

              How did I not see this comment Howie? 😉

        • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

          Are you kidding me – I love it when you run around the house – especially when you make that Indian sound lol!!! And I still don’t know what happened or what I did for that matter for it to go back to normal – I don’t even think I did anything. 
          As for my rep – too late haha!

          • http://billdorman.wordpress.com Bill Dorman

            Oh, I think you are totally absolved; it was that pack of wild dogs @johnfalchetto:disqus @TheJackB:disqus and  @NancyADavis:twitter  

            I don’t know how they did it but that’s ok. Wait ’til they see the prank I have for them.

            BTW – I had the war paint and skirt too a la @DannyBrown and his kilt. Don’t ask him if he wears underwear with that thing. It’s not the best mental image………..

            • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

              Hahaha! I don’t know whether to be worried, scared or what….Either way – I’m certainly anxious and curious to see what you got up your sleeve or kilt for those guys lol ;).

        • http://twitter.com/skypulsemedia Howie at Sky Pulse Media

          Well you were her number one stalker two months back. See Bill persistence pays off. Now you are only on single secret probation!

      • http://hajrak.blogspot.com Hajra

        I knew it! I have to bribe Ingrid to guest post to get onto that list! :)

        • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

          Hahaha! Bribery will get you everywhere ;). J/K!

        • http://www.expatlifecoach.com/blog John Falchetto

          Well I had to pay quite a bit to GP here, but it’s all worth it. …J/K

          • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

            And thank you again for sending that payment via Western Union – I had a great holiday 😉 hehe.

          • http://billdorman.wordpress.com Bill Dorman

            I didn’t know they could photo shop a Gravatar…………….is that your high school picture?

      • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

        LOL – Well…you certainly are in the lead so far my friend :).

  • http://www.theuglykoala.com/digital-nomads-and-online-business-owners.html TheUglyKoala

    Hey!! wants wrong with animal avatars?

    Trust me, this is WAY nicer, than having to look at my Ugly Mug;)

    • http://www.expatlifecoach.com/blog John Falchetto

      @TheUglyKoala:disqus LOL! Well as I said I am a reformed ‘animal avatar hater’. Lions, Koala, I love yall now :)

      • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

        I’m gonna have to agree but to a certain extent! If the avatar is one of a mosquito or fly or reptile or any other creature I deem Ewwww and gross in my book – then I might love them less hehe.

    • http://www.thesaleslion.com/ Marcus Sheridan,The Sales Lion

      I think Koala’s are awesome! :))

      • http://twitter.com/adamtoporek Adam Toporek

        You meant “Koalas are tasty,” didn’t you?

      • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

        I think they’re super cute as well!

  • Al Smith

    Thanks John (and Griddy)  This is Great.  Everyone you mentioned here has helped me in some way, especially JK and Marcus.  I appreciate reading all of your blogs.  We need more of this.

    Hope to be able to contribute soon in some small way.  Can’t wait.

    Al

    • http://trafficcoleman.com/blog/official-black-seo-guy/ Black Seo Guy

      AL..I read some of these guys blogs also and they do a good job in disclosing what they do and how they do it.

      “Black Seo Guy “Signing Off”

      • http://www.expatlifecoach.com/blog John Falchetto

        That’s why I keep them in a special file in my reader. They just do an amazing job.

    • http://www.expatlifecoach.com/blog John Falchetto

      @e6d6cd5c1b06dd69b05b403e9c93be27:disqus They all help not just me and you but tons of people everyday. That’s what makes them A-listers in my book. It has nothing to do with the numbers of followers, Klout number, subscribers, it’s what they give back, not what they take :)

      • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

        Very well said John! Thank you!!!!

    • http://www.expatlifecoach.com/blog John Falchetto

      @e6d6cd5c1b06dd69b05b403e9c93be27:disqus They all help not just me and you but tons of people everyday. That’s what makes them A-listers in my book. It has nothing to do with the numbers of followers, Klout number, subscribers, it’s what they give back, not what they take :)

    • http://www.expatlifecoach.com/blog John Falchetto

      @e6d6cd5c1b06dd69b05b403e9c93be27:disqus They all help not just me and you but tons of people everyday. That’s what makes them A-listers in my book. It has nothing to do with the numbers of followers, Klout number, subscribers, it’s what they give back, not what they take :)

    • http://www.expatlifecoach.com/blog John Falchetto

      @e6d6cd5c1b06dd69b05b403e9c93be27:disqus They all help not just me and you but tons of people everyday. That’s what makes them A-listers in my book. It has nothing to do with the numbers of followers, Klout number, subscribers, it’s what they give back, not what they take :)

    • http://www.expatlifecoach.com/blog John Falchetto

      @e6d6cd5c1b06dd69b05b403e9c93be27:disqus They all help not just me and you but tons of people everyday. That’s what makes them A-listers in my book. It has nothing to do with the numbers of followers, Klout number, subscribers, it’s what they give back, not what they take :)

    • http://hustlersnotebook.com Jk Allen

      Thanks Al. I appreciate that!

    • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

      No need to thank me – it was all John. I’m just the venue :).
      Great to see you here Al.

      Cheers

  • http://spinsucks.com Gini Dietrich

    “creation of a writing pyromaniac” HAHAHAHAHA! I freaking love that description! LOL!! We should call her WP for short. Freaking awesome!

    It’s so odd to me that we only “met” in January. I feel like I’ve known you and Ameena most of my adult life. YOU are an amazing man, entrepreneur, and blogger that everyone should know. You don’t blog in the social media echo chamber and it’s very refreshing. 

    For me, I think I’d add two things to your list: 1) If my friends recommend a blogger, I’ll subscribe and see what they’re talking about. Sometimes the blogger enlightens me; other times not. And 2) If the person comments on my blog, I ALWAYS check out their blog, and subscribe, in order to get to know them better. It may take me a few weeks, but I always do it and find lots of fun new bloggers that way.

    • http://www.expatlifecoach.com/blog John Falchetto

      @ginidietrich:disqus you bring up a good point, recommendations from friends. It’s a tough one, taste is very personal and you are right what enlightens one may be boring to another.
      I agree, if a person comments I always find out who they are, especially the ones with animal avatars, it’s a double edge sword, you are more interesting but can also look like well… an animal.

      • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

        John – thanks so much for writing this guest post. Great discussion topic and it was an honor to feature you here my dear friend.

        Happy Monday to ya.

        • http://www.expatlifecoach.com/blog John Falchetto

          Ingrid stop it the honor is all mine to be here, really. As @MarcusSheridan:disqus just mentioned it gives me a good head start on Top Stalker. MwaHAHAHAHA

          • http://billdorman.wordpress.com Bill Dorman

            Sumbich…………..

            • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

              LOL!

          • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

            Hahaha – in that case..,

    • http://www.expatlifecoach.com/blog John Falchetto

      WP as in WordPress?  

      • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

        Ha! That’s exactly what I thought as well 😉

    • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

      Well…I’m glad John was able to give you a dose of laughter today hehe ;).
      He already answered it for me but I thought WP like WordPress as well!

      Nice additions Gin – I also look at people who comment on this blog. I go through their site and see if I want to subscribe. But regardless if I do or not – I always go through their site to see what theiy’re about and maybe even comment or RT one of their posts that I enjoyed.

      • http://www.expatlifecoach.com/blog John Falchetto

        @Griddy:disqus Notice how @ginidietrich:disqus feels like knowing me for 6 months feels like for ever… 
        It must be pretty bad !

        • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

          Crap – I guess I’m in that boat as well. I forget that she’s not really our Aunt and that we’ve known her since birth haha.

    • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

      Well…I’m glad John was able to give you a dose of laughter today hehe ;).
      He already answered it for me but I thought WP like WordPress as well!

      Nice additions Gin – I also look at people who comment on this blog. I go through their site and see if I want to subscribe. But regardless if I do or not – I always go through their site to see what theiy’re about and maybe even comment or RT one of their posts that I enjoyed.

    • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

      Well…I’m glad John was able to give you a dose of laughter today hehe ;).
      He already answered it for me but I thought WP like WordPress as well!

      Nice additions Gin – I also look at people who comment on this blog. I go through their site and see if I want to subscribe. But regardless if I do or not – I always go through their site to see what theiy’re about and maybe even comment or RT one of their posts that I enjoyed.

    • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

      Well…I’m glad John was able to give you a dose of laughter today hehe ;).
      He already answered it for me but I thought WP like WordPress as well!

      Nice additions Gin – I also look at people who comment on this blog. I go through their site and see if I want to subscribe. But regardless if I do or not – I always go through their site to see what theiy’re about and maybe even comment or RT one of their posts that I enjoyed.

    • http://nittygriddy.com/ Ingrid Abboud

      Well…I’m glad John was able to give you a dose of laughter today hehe ;).
      He already answered it for me but I thought WP like WordPress as well!

      Nice additions Gin – I also look at people who comment on this blog. I go through their site and see if I want to subscribe. But regardless if I do or not – I always go through their site to see what theiy’re about and maybe even comment or RT one of their posts that I enjoyed.